Thanksgiving is a cherished holiday steeped in traditions (and recipes) passed down
through generations. It’s a time for gratitude, togetherness, and celebration. For seniors,
Thanksgiving holds special meaning — it’s a chance to reminisce, share stories, and
enjoy time with loved ones. Whether your older family member is at home or in an
assisted living community, there are plenty of ways to make them feel involved and
appreciated on this special day.
Bring Family Traditions to Them
If the seniors in your life are not at home, you can bring familiar traditions to them. Set
up a video call for the family gathering or coordinate with the community to bring them
to your celebration if they’re able to travel. If not, record a message from each family
member sharing a favorite Thanksgiving memory or expressing gratitude. Small
keepsakes like family photos, fall decorations, or handmade cards can also make their
space feel more festive and connected to home.
Prepare a Special, Simplified Meal
Sharing a Thanksgiving meal is a cherished tradition. For seniors living at home, invite
them to participate in the family dinner by sharing some of their personal recipes. For
those not at home, bring a special meal to them. Many communities provide
Thanksgiving dinners, yet nothing beats a truly homemade Thanksgiving feast. A pared-
down version of the holiday meal can include the essentials they love without
overwhelming them. Consider bringing small portions of classic dishes like turkey slices,
mashed potatoes, stuffing, or pumpkin pie, ensuring the food is easy to eat, especially if
there are dietary or mobility restrictions.
Meaningful Activities to Share Together
Spend quality time engaging in activities that may be meaningful to them, such as
looking through photo albums, listening to their favorite holiday music, or sharing a
gratitude list. Many seniors enjoy storytelling — encourage them to share their favorite
holiday memories or traditions from their past Thanksgivings.
Inclusive Games and Activities
Organize inclusive games and activities that everyone can participate in, regardless of
mobility or cognitive ability. Bingo, storytelling circles, and gentle exercise sessions can
be both engaging and enjoyable.
Creating a Thanksgiving focused on connection will make the day memorable, giving
seniors a sense of belonging, warmth, and joy in a way that’s both meaningful and
deeply comforting.